What Is Virtual DBT Therapy? Benefits, How It Works & More

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In today’s fast-paced and often overwhelming world, access to quality mental health support is more critical than ever. With the rise of telehealth and digital solutions, therapy is no longer confined to an office setting—it can now be accessed from the comfort of home. One powerful approach that has adapted seamlessly to the online space is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). But what exactly is virtual DBT therapy, and how does it work?

If you’re new to DBT, it may be helpful to first explore the foundations of this evidence-based treatment by visiting this detailed guide on What is DBT Therapy. Once you understand its core principles, it becomes easier to see how DBT can be delivered effectively through secure virtual platforms.

In this article, we’ll dive deep into the world of virtual DBT therapy—exploring how it works, why it’s effective, who it can help, and what you can expect if you choose this path. Whether you’re an individual struggling with intense emotions, a parent seeking support for a teenager, or someone curious about online therapy options, this guide will provide you with the clarity and confidence to make an informed decision.

Understanding the Foundations of DBT

Before exploring the virtual format, it’s important to revisit what DBT is briefly.

  • Developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan in the late 1980s, DBT was initially designed to treat people with borderline personality disorder and chronic suicidal thoughts.
  • Over time, DBT is highly effective for a range of challenges, including depression, anxiety disorders, trauma, eating disorders, substance use, and difficulties with emotional regulation.
  • At its heart, DBT combines two key approaches:

    1. Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies: Helping people identify unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors.
    2. Mindfulness and Acceptance Practices: Encouraging self-awareness, non-judgment, and balance between acceptance and change.


The therapy typically includes four main modules:

  1. Mindfulness – Learning to stay present in the moment.
  2. Distress Tolerance – Building skills to survive crises without making them worse.
  3. Emotion Regulation – Understanding and managing intense emotions.
  4. Interpersonal Effectiveness – Strengthening communication and relationship skills.


Now, let’s look at how these transformative tools can be delivered virtually.

What is Virtual DBT Therapy?

Virtual DBT Therapy is the delivery of Dialectical Behavior Therapy through secure online platforms such as video conferencing. Instead of traveling to a therapist’s office, clients engage in therapy sessions from their own home, workplace, or any private location with internet access.

This format mirrors the structure of in-person DBT, including:

  • Individual Therapy Sessions: One-on-one meetings with a therapist to tailor skills to personal struggles.
  • DBT Skills Training Groups: Interactive classes where clients learn and practice DBT skills alongside peers.
  • Phone or Messaging Coaching: Real-time support to apply DBT strategies in moments of crisis.
  • Therapist Consultation Teams: Behind the scenes, therapists collaborate to ensure high-quality care.


The difference lies in the medium: rather than sitting across from your therapist in a physical room, you interact through a secure video link. Notably, the therapeutic relationship, accountability, and skill-building remain just as effective in this virtual environment.

Why Virtual DBT Therapy Works

Skeptics often wonder whether therapy delivered through a screen can be as effective as in-person care. The research—and growing client experiences—say yes. Here’s why:

  1. Accessibility
    • Removes geographical barriers. Clients can work with specialists even if they live in areas without local DBT providers.
    • Ideal for someone with mobility challenges or limited transportation.
  2. Consistency
    • Life disruptions such as illness, travel, or weather don’t prevent attendance.
    • Consistency is critical in DBT, where learning and practicing skills requires commitment.
  3. Comfort and Privacy
    • Clients often feel more relaxed engaging from home, which can make it easier to open up.
    • Sessions can be conducted in private, secure spaces to maintain confidentiality.
  4. Evidence-Based Outcomes
    • Studies have shown that telehealth DBT achieves comparable outcomes to in-person DBT.
    • Clients report improvements in emotional regulation, reduced crisis behaviors, and enhanced interpersonal functioning.
  5. Technology-Enhanced Engagement
    • Many virtual platforms allow screen-sharing, digital worksheets, and interactive exercises that reinforce learning.

Who Can Benefit from this DBT Therapy?

People of all ages engaging in virtual DBT therapy
Virtual DBT therapy supports teens, adults, and families

Virtual DBT therapy is highly versatile and can benefit a wide range of individuals, including:

  • Teens and Young Adults: Many adolescents are already comfortable in digital environments, making online DBT engaging and relatable.
  • Adults Managing Intense Emotions: Individuals struggling with mood swings, self-harm urges, or suicidal thoughts can receive structured support.
  • People with Anxiety and Depression: DBT skills help break cycles of rumination and avoidance.
  • Couples and Families: Virtual DBT can support family systems in building communication and reducing conflict.
  • Busy Professionals or Parents: Those with demanding schedules may find it easier to fit therapy into their day when travel time is eliminated.
  • Clients Seeking Expanded Access: In rural or underserved areas, virtual DBT opens doors to evidence-based treatment that might not otherwise be available.

What to Expect in a Virtual DBT Session

If you’re considering online DBT therapy, you might wonder what it actually looks like. Here’s what typically happens:

1. The Setup

You’ll receive a secure video conferencing link from your therapist. Sessions are usually held weekly, with additional group skills classes scheduled separately.

2. The Session Flow

  • Check-in: Reviewing the week, including progress and challenges.
  • Diary Cards: Tracking emotions, urges, and skill use (a core DBT tool).
  • Skill Practice: Learning or reinforcing DBT strategies tailored to your needs.
  • Problem Solving: Applying DBT skills to real-life situations.
  • Homework: Practicing skills between sessions.

3. Confidentiality

Therapists use HIPAA-compliant platforms to ensure privacy. Clients are encouraged to find a quiet, private space for sessions.

4. Group Classes

In skills training groups, participants join virtually to learn DBT modules together. Interactive exercises, role-plays, and mindfulness practices are integrated seamlessly into the online format.

Benefits Unique to Virtual DBT Therapy

Beyond the general advantages of telehealth, virtual DBT therapy offers unique strengths:

  • Skill Generalization: Since clients join from their everyday environments, they can immediately apply skills where they’re needed most.
  • Flexibility Across Time Zones: Therapists can work with clients across different regions, making specialized DBT expertise more widely available.
  • Reduced Stigma: Engaging from home reduces visibility, which can be reassuring for those worried about being judged for attending therapy.

Addressing Common Concerns

Will I feel connected to my therapist online?

Yes. While some worry about losing the “human touch,” many clients report feeling just as connected through video sessions. Skilled therapists use warmth, presence, and active engagement to build strong therapeutic relationships.

What if I’m not tech-savvy?

Most virtual therapy platforms are simple to use. Therapists often provide step-by-step guidance for logging in, testing audio/video, and troubleshooting.

Is virtual therapy private?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is taken seriously, with secure, encrypted platforms and clear guidelines for clients on maintaining privacy at home.

Will insurance cover it?

Many insurance providers now cover telehealth sessions, though policies vary. It’s best to check with your provider or ask the therapy center for guidance.

Virtual DBT Therapy vs. In-Person DBT

Aspect Virtual DBT Therapy In-Person DBT
Accessibility Available anywhere with internet Limited by location
Convenience No commute, flexible scheduling Requires travel
Privacy Conducted at home Confidential in office setting
Technology Uses video, digital tools Face-to-face, paper materials
Effectiveness Research shows comparable outcomes Well-established effectiveness

Both formats are valuable. The best choice relies on your lifestyle, comfort level, and access to providers.

How to Get Started with Virtual and Online DBT Therapy

Client setting up laptop for online DBT session
Simple steps to begin your virtual DBT therapy journey
  1. Research Providers: Look for licensed therapists or centers specializing in DBT. Providers must be trained in DBT, not just general CBT.
  2. Schedule a Consultation: Most centers, such as Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center, offer initial consultations to determine fit.
  3. Prepare Your Space: Choose a quiet, private area with reliable internet. Headphones can enhance privacy.
  4. Commit to the Process: DBT requires active participation—attending sessions, completing diary cards, and practicing skills consistently.

Why Choose Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center?

At the Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center, we combine evidence-based DBT, mindfulness practices, and innovative approaches, including ketamine-assisted psychotherapy. Our team of skilled clinicians is dedicated to making DBT accessible in both in-person and virtual formats.

By choosing our center, you’ll benefit from:

  • Specialized DBT-trained therapists.
  • A holistic approach that integrates mindfulness, compassion, and real-world skills.
  • The flexibility of engaging in therapy virtually without sacrificing quality or connection.

Final Thoughts

What is this type of online DBT treatment? It’s an adaptation of a proven, evidence-based approach delivered in a way that’s accessible and flexible—meeting people where they are, both physically and emotionally. Through secure video sessions, group skills classes, and ongoing support, this format enables individuals to manage their emotions, handle crises, and build meaningful, fulfilling lives.

If you’ve been looking for DBT but face obstacles such as distance, scheduling conflicts, or a lack of local providers, our online DBT services may be the answer. It’s not just convenient—it can be genuinely transformative.

Whether you’re new to therapy or already familiar with DBT, consider exploring how this modern approach could support your journey toward emotional well-being.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Is online DBT therapy as effective as in-person sessions?

Yes. Research shows that online DBT sessions deliver comparable results to in-person therapy. With secure video platforms, structured skills training, and consistent therapist support, clients experience the same improvements in emotional regulation, resilience, and relationship skills.

What technology do I need for virtual DBT therapy?

You only require a stable internet connection, a device with a camera and microphone, and a private space. Most telehealth therapy platforms are user-friendly and HIPAA-compliant, ensuring that your sessions remain confidential and stress-free.

Who is a good fit for online DBT therapy?

Virtual DBT is suitable for teens, adults, and families who struggle with intense emotions, stress, or interpersonal difficulties. It’s beneficial for those with busy schedules, limited transportation, or who live in areas without access to DBT-trained clinicians.

How do online group DBT skills classes work?

Group sessions are conducted through secure video calls, where participants learn and practice mindfulness, emotion regulation, and distress tolerance skills together. The interactive format encourages participation and allows clients to apply skills in real-life situations immediately.

Does insurance cover online DBT therapy?

Many insurance providers now include coverage for telehealth services, including DBT delivered virtually. Coverage depends on your specific plan, so it’s best to contact your insurance company or therapy center directly for details about benefits and costs.

Rajesh Jagannathan

Rajesh Jagannathan

Rajesh Jagannathan was born in India and earned a B.Tech in Computer Science from IIT, Madras. After spending a few youthful years in the Masters/Ph.D. program at the Ohio State University moved to the Bay Area for work. Since then he has stayed in the Bay Area and worked in tech for the better part of 20+ years. He has been with the center since its inception playing a key advisory role on tech related matters.

He enjoys living in the bay area with his family, exploring the outdoors in California and the world at large. While interests change over time some constants through the years have been travel, cooking, painting and board games. Lately all his spare time has been consumed by pickleball.

David Pepper

David Pepper, MD (Retired)

Dr. Pepper was born in San Francisco and attended UC Berkeley and then Medical and Graduate School in Iowa. Returning to California, he practiced and taught full spectrum Family Medicine with UCSF for 30+ years, working in Fresno, San Francisco and Contra Costa Counties. 1,000 births and 1,000 deaths one could say – with thousands of Families in between… in the ER, Hospital and Outpatient Clinics – always with a focus on Family and Community.
 
He has a long interest in Psychedelics and completed the CPTR program through CIIS in 2023. He is passionate about helping people think about how to craft their second half of life with meaning, including planning for a natural End of Life process that is not over medicalized.  He believes that a well planned End of Life allows people to live well.  More about his work can be found here.  
 
He brings his expertise in clinical assessment, and the tools that support this to working with the Team at Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center to develop best practices for working with clients seeking expanded state treatment.  He collaborates with his wife who also works with clients in Expanded States.  He enjoys his 4 children, gardening, hiking, and community.
Rochelle

Rochelle Frank, PsyD

Rochelle Frank, PhD is a clinical psychologist in Oakland, CA with over 30 years of experience in both the public and private sectors. Dr. Frank earned her doctorate in clinical psychology at Syracuse University and completed her clinical training at Yale Psychiatric Institute. She specializes in evidence-based transdiagnostic treatment of  complex and co-occurring mood, anxiety, and trauma disorders in adults and adolescents, and related  problems in high-conflict couples and families. 

In addition to her private practice Dr.  Frank is an assistant clinical professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, and also  holds faculty and supervisory appointments at The Wright Institute and the University of California San  Francisco School of Medicine.  She is co-author of The transdiagnostic road map to case formulation and  treatment planning: Practical guidance for clinical decision making (Frank & Davidson, 2014; New Harbinger),  a contributing author to S. G. Hofmann & S. C. Hayes (Eds.), Beyond the DSM (2020, New Harbinger), and  currently serves on the board of directors for the Institute for Better Health.

Dr. Frank has been involved with Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center since 2012.  She has served as a clinical consultant and focuses on helping the Team bring a transdiagnostic process-based perspective to case formulation and treatment planning, as well as integrating methods from other third-wave cognitive behavioral therapies into the DBT model.  

In addition to enjoying time with her family, Dr.  Frank is an avid golfer, home chef, and a frequent beta-tester of her clinical skills while skiing and mountain biking.

Michael Stanger

Michael Stanger, MD

I am a board-certified psychiatrist practicing in California and Colorado across a range of settings – inpatient, outpatient, emergency and partial hospital, with current affiliations at Contra Costa Regional Medical Center and Boulder Community Health.

I have a particular interest in the therapeutic utility of ketamine to support psychotherapy. I began working with ketamine in 2016, initially in my California private practice where I administered oral and intramuscular doses. I have since continued to support therapist access and to develop understanding around the most effective use of these modality. In related work, I have mentored with the CIIS Center for Psychedelic Therapies and Research and taught sessions with the Polaris Insight Center on ketamine.

My background includes childhood immigration from South Africa to New York, working in the technology industry for several years and then traveling in an unscripted manner to arrive at the awareness that medicine, and ultimately psychiatry would be the path to be helpful to others in an applied way.

Chrysanthe

Chrysanthe Christodoulou

Operations Manager

Chrysanthe is our Operations Manager and one of our in-house Mindfulness Experts. She connects with new clients as they come into the Center, oversees day to day operations and runs special projects.  She is instrumental in supporting the Team by bringing joy, flow and ease.

Chrysanthe studied Meditation, Yoga, and Mindfulness with some of the most respected teachers of our time. She also holds a BS in Economics.  This combination of skills ensures our Center runs efficiently behind the scenes and lends wisdom to our budding Mindfulness Program.

Her local teaching career has spanned the Bay Area and beyond: overseas in Spain, Chile, Greece, and Amsterdam; and locally in San Francisco, Marin, Berkeley, Oakland, and Walnut Creek. Chrysanthe honors the magic in both movement and stillness, stirring energy and witnessing what emerges as everything settles into place. 

When Chrysanthe isn’t handling the business end of the Center or running mindfulness programming, you can find her exploring trails with her wolf pup, finding connection in community, and enjoying the sun and the sea.

Priya Jogia

Priya Jogia

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

​​Priya Jogia is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW). Since 2013, she has worked in various clinical settings including: community mental health, hospital, and outpatient programs. Priya’s also spent time in Vietnam studying international social work and the relationship between culture, ethnicity, and mental health.

Priya is an active practitioner of mindfulness-based behavioral therapies including DBT and ACT, and has extensive training in CBT. As a DBT therapist, she’s seen the positive impact of using DBT skills in her own life, and is strongly committed to helping clients live meaningful lives that are aligned with their values.

Priya has an interest in perinatal mental health and working with BIPOC populations, and she strives to integrate a social and racial justice lens into her work. While being a therapist has brought a lot of meaning to Priya’s life, she tries not to take herself too seriously, and gets much joy from being a mum, being in nature, and cuddling with her dog.

Jay Indik

Jay Indik

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

Jay brings his compassion, creativity, and equanimity to support each person who seeks therapy.. He believes that what makes each person happy is connected to their deepest sense of what is important. Jay listens for how each client can idiosyncratically transform their suffering into a happier life. As a result of working with Jay folks’ learn to address unwanted behavior, regulate their emotions, recover from individual or cultural trauma, repair relationships, and organize their behavior consistent with their values Jay has intensive training and has practiced the following modalities for decades: DBT, Narrative Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, Sensory Modulation, Psychodynamic Treatment and Expressive Arts Therapies. Jay specializes in working with couples, parents, parent child dyads and young adults, as well as with individuals from mid-life through retirement. Jay’s experience as a theater director, parent, teacher, and executive combined with his knowledge of research validated treatments allows him to best relate and serve each individual.

Jay has two adult children (one daughter, one non-binary), a “Real Dads Love Trans kids” t-shirt, and one amazing grandchild he watches one day a week.

Ari Tavano

Ariana Tavano

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

Ari Tavano is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW). She has worked in an array of clinical settings for over ten years, and utilizes the diversity of her experience to foster a therapeutic frame rooted in curiosity and empathic regard. She specializes in working with those looking to cultivate self-growth, increase interpersonal efficacy, and develop an affirming relationship with their internal worlds.

Ari extends a humanistic approach to her work by nourishing the whole self – according to one’s intersectionality and inherent wisdom. She is trained in DBT and other treatment modalities, including CBT, Existentialism, and Trauma Theory. She harmonizes the concepts of behaviorism and intuitiveness of relational healing, with opportunities to explore psychedelics and expanded-state work.

Ari invites you to build capacity for both processing and playfulness. She prioritizes humor and is often found in the ocean, on the dance floor, and imagining her next adventure. Ari has also worked as a licensed public school teacher in Hawai’i and documentary photographer in South Africa. She is committed to equity, inclusion, and the pursuit of social justice.

Alyson Barry

Alyson Barry, PhD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

Alyson Barry is a licensed clinical psychologist (PhD). Since 2005, she’s gained experience in diverse areas of practice, including inpatient hospitals, intensive outpatient programs, community mental health, and private practice. Alyson came to DBT in 2013 through her own yoga and meditation practice, which led her to seek additional training in mindfulness-based therapies. Drawn to work with people who’ve experienced developmental trauma, she begins by addressing what’s happening in the present, helping her clients develop practical skills that fundamentally improve how they interact with themselves and the world around them. As a result of this work, this can over time, set the stage for healing the older wounds. She believes in a collaborative and consent-based treatment approach, working to ensure that clients understand and are in agreement with any diagnosis or therapeutic technique. She hopes that this transparency can help to create an environment of respect for her clients’ choice, autonomy, and knowledge of themselves. She is also a big believer in bringing humor and irreverence into therapy. In her free time, Alyson enjoys snorkeling, hanging out with her cat, and spending time with friends. Alyson is available to work via telehealth with clients in California, Colorado, and Florida.
Heather Macbeth

Heather Macbeth

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (MFT)

Heather co-founded the Oakland DBT & Mindfulness Center in 2012. She is a licensed MFT. She offers a relational, somatic, experiential and humanistic approach to her work and is committed to relieving psychological suffering. Her style is both compassionate and gentle as well as directive and aims to be supportive of each person’s unique needs. Her work focuses on emotion regulation, changing persistent cycles of self-blame, listening more closely to intuitive knowing and increasing self compassion. She is committed and dedicated to helping her clients have a life where they can find themselves thrive vs. just survive. Working as a therapist, clinical supervisor, skills group and workshop facilitator has brought her a lot of joy. In addition to a private practice setting she has worked in community mental health organizations with disenfranchised youth and families and in public schools as a Behavioral Specialist. Heather works with adults and teens. She is intensively trained in DBT and other treatment modalities such as; Gestalt, Psychodynamic, MBSR, ands Expressive Arts. She is certified in EAP (Equine-assisted psychotherapy) and offers equine-facilitated learning workshops in the Bay Area. Additionally, she has received her training in Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy through the Polaris Insight Center in San Francisco and is inspired by the potential healing benefits of expanded states of consciousness work.

In her free time, and in ideal worlds, she is exploring jungles, hot springs, beaches, hanging out with animals (large and small), enjoying good food, travel and most importantly time with loved ones.

Christine Benvenuto

Christine Benvenuto

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (MFT)

Christine is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the co-founder and Executive Director of the Oakland DBT and Mindfulness Center. She brings over 25 years of experience in mental health to her work, with a background in working with people in all walks of life in residential, outpatient and home based settings. A systems thinker, valuing sustaining relationships, she works with individuals, couples and groups, with a strong belief that small shifts can create dynamic changes.

She blends a lifetime of interest and practice in somatics, meditation, embodiment, psychedelics and the arts with a passion for social justice, nature and thriving ecosystems. Her mentors are psychologically savvy, center co-existence, value differences and maintain a sense of humor.

Her professional training spans from depth oriented, expanded state and attachment based to behavioral styles of treatment. She co-creates a therapeutic container that feels collaborative, warm, dynamic, thoughtful and deeply resonant.

She works with individuals, couples and groups, offering ongoing weekly therapy, Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy and Consultation.

Along side of her professional life, Christine is grateful for her extended web of relationships as daughter, sister, wife, friend, step-mom and community connector.